Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

4getmenot is an AI-powered reminder and gift recommendation platform that helps you remember birthdays, anniversaries, and other special occasions - and makes it easy to send thoughtful gifts. We send you timely reminders of upcoming special days, suggest suitable gifts within your budget, and handle the ordering and delivery. You stay thoughtful without the stress.

Because life is busy, and remembering everyone's special days and picking the perfect gift can be overwhelming. We simplify the process by reminding you ahead of time, recommending gifts tailored to your loved one's interests and age, and helping you place the order, all in one place. No more last-minute panic shopping or forgotten birthdays.

Currently, our service is only available in the United States.

4getmenot is not a spam site. The platform is owned and operated by industry professionals, and the concept was born out of the founder's frustration at regularly forgetting birthdays.

Signing up is completely free. There are no registration fees, setup costs, or hidden charges to create an account, start using the dashboard, and create reminders for loved ones' special days.

No, we don't charge any monthly subscription fees. You only pay for the gifts you choose to send.

You could, but we do so much more than just send reminders. We also suggest thoughtful gifts tailored to your recipient's attributes and interests and within your budget, and help you order and deliver them. We even offer an auto-order feature to help make the process easier for you.

We are not an e-commerce store. Instead, we curate personalized gift recommendations from top e-commerce suppliers. This gives you access to a huge range of high-quality gifts without wasting time aimlessly browsing multiple websites or doomscrolling on Google or social media.

Our system uses advanced smart AI technology to analyze the details you provided about your loved ones (age, gender, interests, location, etc.), and then sends you a curated list of gift options tailored to the occasion and your budget.

Of course. You can add as many people and special events as you like. From birthdays and wedding anniversaries to holidays and corporate milestones, our platform is designed to handle all of your reminder and gift-buying needs.

We partner with leading e-commerce platforms to offer a wide variety of gifts. Your selected item will be shipped directly to your recipient from a trusted supplier.

Yes, all payments are processed through secure, encrypted third-party payment systems. We never store your payment details on our servers.

If you have the auto-order feature turned on, and you don't choose a gift from the personalized list of suggestions we send you within one day, we will automatically place an order and arrange delivery on your behalf for the top-rated item that meets your criteria and is within your budget. We recommend that you first use manual ordering a few times until you are familiar and comfortable with the system, then turn auto-ordering on.

No. Auto-order is completely optional. If you don't have it turned on, we will send you a curated list of gift ideas ahead of the event, and you can manually choose and order the one you like best.

We work with reputable delivery partners; however, delays can occasionally occur. If your gift is late or there's a delivery issue, our support team will assist you and help resolve the problem as quickly as possible.

You can check your dashboard for upcoming special occasions and gift suggestions at any time. If you have auto-order turned on, we'll take care of it and send a gift automatically based on your settings.